Before I went into labor I researched and researched what to bring to the hospital. I packed and re packed my hospital bag I don't know how many times! In the end I didn't use near as much stuff as I thought I would, and there were some things that I wished we had with us. So, I thought i'd compile a little list of what I would bring next time we find our selves heading to the labor room :)
1. Your own pillow. It's not necessary, but I was SO thankful I brought my own pillow. It was a little piece of home that made me feel a lot more comfortable. Plus, those hospital pillows are about as flat as a pancake. I should of brought a pillow for the husband, I did bring a blanket for him but I think he would of appreciated his own pillow too.
2. Diapers and wipes. The hospital does give you some, but we were thankful we also had our own. We went through the supply the hospital gave us very quickly, and I was to shy to ask for more :) Plus, you'll never know if you'll need them on the way home from the hospital!
3. Some kind of body wash and shampoo. I was able to have a bath the first night in the hospital, and it felt so good! I realize that everyone's stay will look different so this one will have to be up to you. Although, it did feel really good to take a shower to before we went home! And don't forget stuff for your hubby, they'll be thankful for a nice hot shower after a while, too!
4. Cell phone and camera. We really wanted to be able to notify as many people personally as we could before it got out onto social media (that didn't happen) but we still tried! Plus, who doesn't want memories captured of your first few hours and days with your new little one!
5. Slippers. I wish I had brought slippers. I brought a cheap pair of flip flops but didn't try them on first, they did not fit! So I wore my every day sandals and it would of been a lot more comfortable to have a pair of slippers.
6. A soother. Not everyone will agree with me on this one, but it came in handy!
7. A book or some games. We didn't really have anything like that a long, except our phones. We did a lot of waiting and it would of been nice to have something to do. We did watch some TV, but that gets old after a while.
8. A few sleepers, with zippers! I only had sleepers with buttons, and although they worked for a fussing baby who does not like getting changed the zipper ones are much easer to use!
9. Some swaddling blankets. The hospital give you one, but I found it wasn't quite big enough. Plus, it's nice to wrap your baby in them for the ride home!
10. A water bottle or travel mug. After giving birth all I wanted to do was DRINK. My husband had to go back and forth to the kitchen a lot because the cups were so small. It would of been nice to just fill up my water bottle the first time.
11. A comfy night gown. I was thankful to change out of the hospital smock when I knew visitors were coming. Not needing to constantly check to see if your rear was showing was a plus ;)
12. A comfy going home outfit. I was thankful for stretchy pants and a loose fitting top. I was so comfortable. You will really only need one outfit and one set of PJ's, unless your in the hospital for than a few days. I over packed- and brought way to many options! Although, I do wish I had brought a sweater a long.
13. Formula, just in case! We needed to supplement with formula before we left the hospital. We were given a little but did have to go out and buy some. Having a little back up stash at home just in case would of been helpful.
14. Nursing Cover. I didn't bring mine with me and just tried to use a blanket- it didn't work as nice. When people are visiting and your baby wants to eat, it's nice to be able to cover up.
15. A journal. I wish I would of brought one so I could write down my memories when they were fresh in my mind. Granted, I wasn't really thinking about it and should of been sleeping. But it would of been nice to have the option.
16. Hair elastics and bobby pins. I hate it when my hair is in my face when I'm trying to do something. My hair didn't look perfect, but it was so nice to have it away from my face.
These are just some of the things that were a necessity to me. Obviously, I'm missing the necessities like a car seat, diaper bag, tooth brush all that stuff. I did have all of that a long, but to me a lot of that stuff was a given. The things I listed were things that I didn't necessarily think of or things that really made the stay a lot more comfortable.
For those of you going to visit new moms and dads in the hospital, bring them something! We had friends bring us some coffee and it was such a nice treat! We also were given some other food like fruit and what not, it was nice to have something to eat that wasn't hospital food. We appreciated the kindness of others!